Man Secretly Records Sexual Act With Ladies, Sells Nudes
Chat screenshotA man, Bendega, has been accused of secretly recording and selling sexual activity with his lovers using phone and laptop.
Bendega, who sells his lovers’ nudes for blackmail purposes, has had several of his former partners speak out.
On Twitter, today April 10th,
Some of them shared audio conversations and screenshots of chats Bendega had with them on WhatsApp, where he threatened them.
One victim stated that she decided to speak out about her encounter with Bendega to prevent other unsuspecting women.
“I had an affair with Bendega from October 2020 to September 2021.
I met him when he was house hunting; we went through the process together, and I lived with him on and off till our love affair ended.
I just knew something was up when I checked his laptop, which he had borrowed from me for a course, and I found out that he was distributing and selling my nudes.
He also had folders of several women he had non-consensually filmed neatly filed and labelled on his laptop.
He harassed and stalked me for months after I left him; he sent explicit pictures and videos of myself I never knew existed to try to shut me up.”
Another victim, who shared her experience on social media, explained that Bendega had told her he was using nude pictures and sex videos to cure his addiction to pornography and masturbation.
“I found out that he had a collection of nudes. Each folder had a name tag.
He said it was his addiction and that he was working on getting better.
He made it seem like he needed my help and support, and he deleted them to show me that he was trying to be better.
I never sent any of my nudes before, and I found it weird when he asked for them.
But he said he enjoyed it and that he preferred I sent them to him rather than him asking.
I would try to take it and send it, but I would often forget.
The first time we had sex, he started to record us. He casually placed the laptop on the chair in the hotel room and stepped out.
I noticed the red light on the laptop and I closed it. He downplayed it when I confronted him after he came back to the room.
I saw on the laptop that he had another recording of another girl he had had sex with.”
Efforts to get a reaction from Bendega have been unsuccessful, as his mobile number has been switched off, and a text message sent to him is yet to be responded to.
Reacting to the allegations, the Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Agency has stated via the Twitter handle, @lagosdsva, that they have contacted one of the victims, and efforts are on to address the matter.
The agency’s Executive Secretary, Titilayo Vivour-Adeniyi, who confirmed the case said they were working with the police.
“The case has already been presented to the police station.
We are in touch with one of the survivors. Once investigation commences, we will do well to inform the public about it,” she said.
The Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, Ben Hundeyin, is yet to respond to text messages from PRISTINEGIST.
